Our 30-Day Sex Challenge
Admittedly, this list has made the rounds on Reddit, and we found it through a link on Cosmopolitan. We made a few changes to the list so it was a little more Kink / BDSM / Swinger friendly…
Rules: (modify as you see fit.)
- Each partner gets 2 “veto” days. If a partner wants to veto an activity and has no more veto privileges left, may use a veto from their partner, if that partner is willing to give their veto away. In return, the partner who gives up their veto is allowed to choose the new activity for the day.
- You may change / modify any activities BEFORE the challenge to accommodate limits, but no changes to the challenge once it
begins . - Activities can be done in any order.
- Periods, business travel, sickness, etc., are treated as “pause days” and are added to the end.
- The challenge should not exceed 40 days.
Below are the listed items, and we’ll be doing them as the month goes on, and checking them off as we go in
Item 1 – Have sex at a time other than your “regular time.”
Item 2 – Try a new sex position
Item 3 – Have sex twice in a day
Item 4 – Read erotica together before sex
Item 5 – Shower sex
Item 6 – Full body massage before sex
Item 7 – Quickie. 10 minutes or less
Item 8 – Road trip and car sex (road
Item 9 – Sex while seated on chair or sofa.
Item 10 – Sensation Play – blindfolds optional (spanking, flogging, impact, feathers, etc..)
Item 11 – Oral sex only
Item 12 – One partner dominates
Item 13 – Bring your partner to orgasm (no intercourse).
Item 14 – Find a new place in the house for sex
Item 15 – Masturbate in front of each other
Item 16 – Rope Play
Item 17 – Use sex toys
Item 18 – Watch porn together
Item 19 – Sex without intercourse
Item 20 – Share fantasies by email / text / marco
Item 21 – Visit a sex store or strip club together
Item 22 – He brings her to orgasm, no intercourse. Hands, mouth, toys only
Item 23 – Take a breather… enjoy a night of vanilla sex
Item 24 – Sex game… dice, spinner, cards, or app
Item 25 – Slow it down sex
Item 26 – “Sneaky vanilla time” domination
Item 27 – Dinner out with under the table touching
Item 28 – Multiple orgasm day
Item 29 – Enjoy additional play partner(s)
Item 30 – Stay up all night having